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Lisa
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Bernie66
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Penny Outskirts
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judith
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wellington womble
Joined: 08 Nov 2004 Posts: 15051 Location: East Midlands
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smile, keep digging while they witter on (they'll think your absorbing all their worldly advice, and will hardly notice your only 'umm'ing and 'really?'ing occasionally! agree with everything, and then do what you were going to do anyway. This is my standard tactic for dealing with people with whom I don't want to deal, and works, unless you actually do want something (like the answer to a secific question or taxing your car!)
That is precisely the reason I gave up allotmenting (well, and someone ran over my greenhouse) I'm sure some people love the social side, and that's fine, but I like a bit of peace and quiet while I'm gardening. For me, its solitude time - I didn't have all day, and I have a highly social job, pandering, wheedling and bullying patients who think they know better in doing what's good for them (which is invariably the opposite of what they want to do!) I simply didn't want to chat. Mind you, I'm a grumpy old baggage!
On one memorable occasion, I had gone up on a windy sunday afternoon in february for an hour in my PJ's a fleece and wellies, as the PJ's were for the wash anyway that evening, thinking there would be nobody there. I met the commitee chairman, secretary and treasurer! |
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Leonie
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 731 Location: West Sussex
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Lisa
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tahir
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